52 Ancestors in 52 Weeks #32 – Sister

Charlotte’s Story 1928-2019

Charlotte Iona Hancock Lucero

When I look for information on our ancestors for the family tree, I always prepare myself for surprises. I found a few new facts about Aunt Charlotte so I want to tell you this afternoon a story about “the prettiest girl in the room.”

In 1928 Frances and Bernard Hancock were living in Elizabeth, Colorado when “the twins” Charlotte and Charleen were born. Frances was 22 and Bernard was 26. The twins joined Evelyn and Pearl their older sisters.

Charlotte and Charlene

Charlotte lived most of her childhood in Loveland, Colorado when the family moved there in 1929. Her father worked a lot of jobs from farm labor to truck driver. By 1935 there were 7 children in the family. The 1940 census showed her father had earned $510 in 1939.

In early 1943 the Hancock family packed up and moved to Denver when Bernard Hancock started working for Gates Rubber Company as a pipe fitter. Evelyn had just graduated from Loveland High School. And, knowing how children tend to react to leaving all their friends behind, I doubt Pearl, Charlotte and Charlene were very happy to leave Loveland and attend North High School in Denver. Dorothy, Shirley and Robert were young enough to easily adjust to the change and making new friends in their northwest Denver home on Hayward street.

Charlotte and Charlene Hancock

By 1948 Charlotte was attending her senior year at North High School. I think she must have been a quiet student. There were no clubs or extra activities listed under her photo in the year book. She had only been at North for a short time.

In 1950 Charlotte was working for Champa Linen Service at 2809 Larimer Street as a mangle woman. Now if you don’t know what a mangle woman does – a mangle is a heavy iron contraption with rollers that you feed wet sheets or towels or blankets through to squeeze out the water which falls to a tub below. A dangerous job at best!

Also, in June of 1950 Charlotte married Bob Lucero and they lived in a basement apartment at 1395 Xavier just a few blocks from Sloans Lake. Their first child, Bruce, was born in 1951. Bob was a student at the University of Denver, graduating in 1953 the same year their daughter Margaret was born.

Robert Lucero, East High School

In 1958 Kenneth was born and in 1962 Steven was born. So in the ranking of 22 Hancock cousins Bruce is number 7, Margaret number 11, Kenneth is number 15 and Steven is number 17.

Lucero Family 1962

Here are some of my observations of the dynamics of the Hancock family from a kid’s view:

We Hancock cousins were all raised the same. Just like Grandma Hancock raised her kids. The laundry was done on Monday and Thursday, dishes were done after every meal, glasses washed first then silverware, plates, pots and pans. We were all woken up at 7:00am whether or not there was a good reason. Except Bruce, he had an early morning paper route to deliver.

Our uncle Robert Hancock was a wonder to us. 6 sisters! Poor guy! He didn’t talk much, probably couldn’t get a word in edgewise! Yet he was close to all his sisters.

You know, Mom’s have their own terms of endearment for their children. When Charlotte was happy with her children there were certain modifications of their name like Margaret became Margy, and Kenneth became Kenny. If she was unhappy with her children the accent on certain syllable’s would change. Bruce became a two syllable name. Kenneth became KenNETH. Steven became SteeeVEN. I don’t believe Aunt Charlotte was ever unhappy with Margaret, such a sweet child.

At Thanksgiving or Christmas when we all gathered at Grandma’s house, the adults would sit at the big dining room table and the children would sit at a table out on the back porch. And, yes, the little ones sat on a phone book or maybe two, or a JC Penny or Sear’s catalogue. That’s why you saved them year after year! Remember when one catalogue had a shiny cover and it would slide off the other? You can’t sit still on a chair when those books are moving around!

Of course we got ‘out of hand’ out there on the back porch and one of the ‘aunts’ would holler out “hey” from the other room or the kitchen and we instantly became quiet. You see, all the aunt’s voices sounded the same and we never knew who was hollering.

Words often used were fussy or fussin. If you’re going to start fussin you can go take a nap. (Are you kidding and miss playing with all the cousins!) or You can just stay in the car if you’re going to fuss. (No way, at the checkout I’ll get a free sucker!)

Our choices were limited!

Have you ever wondered why in the 1950’s we all had the same hair-do? Grandma and Charlotte and her sisters would get out all their curlers together for a home permanent party and meet at the house on Dahlia before the start of a new school year and we would be there for hours while we all got permanents.  No fussin allowed!

Sock Monkey

Charlotte was so creative. She made sock monkies! Remember them?  She made cards. You all probably got Christmas cards she made. They were beautiful. I used to run into Bob and Charlotte in Michaels all the time.

For not having a drivers license ‘ever’ she sure got around. I’ll never forget the day the chaplain at Presbyterian hospital called me to say they had found my business card in the wallet of someone brought into the emergency room and did I know who Robert Lucero was. Well, my favorite uncle I said! Bob wasn’t feeling well when he went out for lunch and an ambulance took him to the emergency room. They were trying to find Charlotte, she wasn’t at home. Where do you look for someone who doesn’t drive and isn’t home?     . . . .  She was probably at Michael’s.

When I worked for a city councilman I was absolutely amazed when I watched a council  meeting on TV and Charlotte and Bob were in the audience. I walked down to council chambers and joined them to watch a longtime friend of theirs who was a judge receive the honor of having a new court building named for him. Both Bob and Charlotte were solid members of their community with many, many friends.

In 2014 Bob and Charlotte and I drove to Colorado Springs for her uncle Lloyd Baber’s memorial service. I asked them how they met. Bob answered immediately, “I went to a dance and I saw Charlotte and I thought she was the prettiest girl in the room.”

It was an amazing opportunity to share Charlotte and Bob’s 50th wedding anniversary celebration and their 60th anniversary celebration and last year’s celebration for Charlotte’s 90th birthday.

Just watching them together . . . you could see . . .  she was still . . . the prettiest girl in the room.

I had the honor of reading my story about Charlotte at her memorial service.


52 Ancestors in 52 Weeks – #15 DNA

There are a lot of commercials right now offering a reduced cost for DNA testing. The Christmas offer was the enticement for my husband to buy a kit for me. I had never been very interested in DNA testing, after 20 years of research I pretty much know where all my ancestors came from.

If you have a tree established in Ancestry then the DNA kit offers more information for them to track the migration of your ancestors. I knew my ancestors had settled in New York and Massachusetts and Kentucky between 1600 and 1700 then migrated west to Wisconsin, Illinois, Kansas and Colorado in the 1800’s. Ancestry confirmed this migration by illustrating the pathways from the European continent to the American continent and across the plains to the Midwest. It makes a pretty picture.

The most interesting part of the DNA test results is the revelation of more than 1000 names within Ancestry of people I share DNA characteristics with. For example, the closest match for me is my first cousin Roxanne Hancock Dye. Roxanne’s father and my mother were brother and sister. Roxanne took an Ancestry DNA test and has established a tree in Ancestry. The match shows we share 1083 cM across 44 segments. A centimorgan (cM) tells you how much DNA is shared. A segment represents the sections of DNA that are identical between two individuals.

Roxanne, her mother, and daughter Emily.

My other closest connections within Ancestry are Kori Bitterlich, my sister’s grand-daughter, with 998 cM over 41 segments. Gary Langdon, my first cousin, 851 cM across 41 segments. James G. Fields, who is my first half-cousin, 350 cM over 17 segments. James’ mother June is my father’s half-sister. After these matches the numbers drop pretty fast to about 99 cM and 10 segments for my third, fourth and fifth cousins.

The real catch with this is you must have an Ancestry DNA test in order to provide the information to know our connections. Because my siblings and most of the cousins I know do not have this connection to Ancestry I don’t have any other DNA information. However, I do have a fairly large tree built with documentation for proof and that makes me happy. But if you are curious, take advantage of the Ancestry DNA test holiday sales.

52 Ancestors in 52 Weeks #14 – Brick Wall

A ‘brick wall’ is that point during research that you are unable to find any information, hints or clues in the billions of records available online or at the library, courthouse or archives. If you are persistent and follow a typical genealogical method of searching you will find something some day. My research follows more of a hit and miss style with the hope of getting lucky.

My hit and miss method also includes being bold enough to contact total strangers and ask if they are related to the ancestor I am researching. I have met a lot of really nice people using this method with only a few who never responded to my plea. I have discovered that people are curious and people like to talk about themselves.

Most recently I have been working with a gentleman from West Virginia who is an author and skilled at restoring old photographs. He very generously sent me his book which tells the stories of the Jewish people who settled in Morgantown, West Virginia. A very poignant, and emotional entry into his world. We are jointly searching for information on his grandfather to find a connection to my husband’s ancestors. I thought by learning as much as I could about early settlement of Jewish families I might be able to get a hint as to where to look for records.

Another lady who retired recently and moved to Fort Collins wrote to ask me if the name mentioned in a letter written more than 100 years ago from Nathan Brink Hancock to his young bride (my great grandmother Lulu Brace Hancock Baber) was also a cousin to our joint ancestor. We are still working on that.

Most recently I received a request from a lady who recognized a name in my Norwegian ancestor tree and was eager to learn if it was the same person in her tree. Anderson is a popular Norwegian name after all. It was the same ancestor, and we were able to share information, stories and photos.

Great Uncle Jureen ‘Jack’ Anderson, daughter Jeanine and wife Vyvyan.

Some of my brick walls have shrunk quite a bit since I took the DNA test and received notifications from Ancestry. But, alas the biggest brick wall I face has not even been chipped in the twenty years I have been searching. That would be for Hyman Singer and his wife Rebecca Silverblatt.

If only I could see an 1890 census (which burned in 1921), or find immigration records or applications for naturalization. I am obsessed with finding out where they came from. Some of the United States Federal census records say Russia or Emperor of Russia, which is now Belarus. Some census records indicate Leeds, England. I must find their entry to the United States. It is out there. . . somewhere!

52 Ancestors in 52 Weeks #13 – In The News

Twenty five years ago the front page story on the Sun’Sailor newspaper covering St. Louis Park, Minnesota reads Minnetonka Woman Unveils Mystery. The date was March 2, 1994 and Jeanine Shesterkin nee Anderson was pictured holding photos of her mother and four half-siblings who she discovered in 1993. My father’s sister, June, mailed the newspaper copy to me recently after visiting with their cousin Jeanine whom she had not seen in many, many years.

Vyvyan Anderson abandoned Jack Anderson and Jeanine when Jeanine was about 2 years old. The only memento Jeanine had of her mother, Vyvyan, was a piece of paper with her handwriting on it. For more than 50 years, that piece of paper was the most tangible evidence Jeanine had of her mother.

Vyvyan Anderson

Jack was 22 years older than Vyvyan when they married in 1937 or 1938, and he was a successful businessman who owned a soda shop and car dealership. He never drank or smoked. Jack had two brothers who were pastors and their Norwegian mother, my great grandmother, Signe Anderson was a devoted Christian.

Jack, Jeanine, Vyvyan Anderson

In 1942 a business opportunity enticed Jack and Vyvyan to move to New York City. Vyvyan apparently became bored with the life of a homemaker and had an affair with a high-ranking Marine. She became pregnant and the two of them left New York City for Florida. The Marine had been stationed at NAS Pensacola. Jack divorced Vyvyan and she married her Marine in 1942.

What always touched Jeanine was her dad never married again. He never even dated. He went to his grave loving Vyvyan. He never said one bad word about her.

Jack and Jeanine moved to Southern California to build a new life. Jack worked as an engineer with Lockheed Corporation. When she was 10, they returned to Minneapolis where Jack took a job with Honeywell.

Jeanine’s memories of her childhood were warm and positive. She said he taught her to ride horses, to shoot, cook and wash clothes. As she grew older Jeanine said she started to inquire more about her mother and encouraged her father to see other women. He told her one heartache like that was enough for a lifetime. In her late teens they moved back to the Enchanted Lake area of Lake Minnetonka where her father retired and died in 1982.

Unfortunately Jeanine learned her new found siblings were not so lucky. Their father suffered from mental illness, abusing both physically and mentally his wife and children. In 1994 at the siblings family reunion her half sister Jacquelyn was unable to attend and Jeanine met her later in Georgia. The Douglas County Sentinel in Douglasville, Georgia reported on February 26, 1994, the story of Jacqueline meeting with Jeanine and the joy she felt at finding her long lost sister.

Jacqueline Irvin Sliter with photographs of her siblings.

Vyvyan died in 1988, five years before Jeanine started her search.

52 Ancestors in 52 Weeks #12 – ’12’

Week 12 the prompt is ’12’ so I have chosen to write about a couple of ancestors that are 12 generations up the ladder from me. These two ancestors are the very first immigrant ancestors I studied. They were part of the Great Migration from England to what became America. Their descendants join six generations later to become my 4x great grandparents Reverend Joel Charles Goodell and Elmina Brigham.

Thomas Brigham was born in Holme-on-Spalding-Moor in Yorkshire, England in 1603. In 1635 he sailed on the ‘Elizabeth and Ellen’ to the Massachusetts Bay Colony and settled in what became Cambridge, Massachusetts. In 1638 he married Mercy Hurd. They had five children.

Robert Goodale/Goodell born in 1601 in Dennington, Suffolk, England, sailed on the ‘Elizabeth’ to the Massachusetts Bay Colony and settled in Salem in 1634 with his wife Kathryn and 3 children. Four more children were born in Salem. No record of any witches for this family.

Both men were planters. Thomas Brigham “made his mark” on the documents granting him land and Robert Goodell signed his name on the documents granting him land. Robert concentrated his efforts on obtaining land as a legacy for his children, gifting then large acreages upon marriage. Although educated Robert was not involved in any part of the governance or development of the communities and towns where he owned land. Thomas Brigham on the other hand settled in at Cambridge where he and his sons and grandsons amassed well over 1000 acres. Thomas served as a ‘selectman,’ and ‘constable’ in Cambridge. Much of the land both Robert and Thomas owned became the home of Harvard University.

The Brigham’s and the Goodell’s become joined 6 generations later when Reverend Joel Charles Goodell and Elmina Brigham marry in 1833 in Cambria, Niagara County, New York. Elmina’s father, Lieut Joel Brigham who served in the War of 1812 when he was 27 years old and his wife, Polly, move with Rev. Joel Goodell and Elmina to Lodi, Ohio about 1834 and Lieut. Joel and Polly Brigham died a few years later. Elmina Brigham Goodell had four children including Lois Emerette Goodell in 1842 before she died in 1843.

Lieut. Joel Brigham Elmina’s father.

Reverand Joel Goodell promptly marries Clarissa Platt and Lois Emerette is sent to Lockport, New York to be raised by relatives because Clarissa, the new wife, apparently did not want the responsibility to raise another woman’s child.

Lois Emerette Goodell about 10 years old in Cambria, New York.

The 1860 census shows Lois Emerette Goodell in Cambria, New York and in 1861 she marries William Totten of Lockport, Niagara County, New York. William and Lois Emerette move to Cerro Gordo County, Iowa, where her brothers live and near her father in Graham, Johnson County, Iowa.

William Franklin Totten and Lois Emerette Goodell about 1861.

Williams parents James Totten and Mary Adair were immigrants from Ireland and had settled in Cambria, New York. James joined the Union Army in 1862 and dies of disease a few days after the Battle of Bull Run in 1862. He was 44 years old and is buried in the Virginia National Cemetery. In 1861 Milton Totten, Lois Emerette’s brother had joined the Union army and was killed in 1864 at Pleasant Hill, Louisiana. One of the “unknown dead” Union soldiers of that fierce battle.

James Totten, Civil War, Virginia National Cemetery

Descendants – Rev. Joel Goodell and Elmina Brigham > Lois Emerette Goodell Totten > Mary Phoebe Totten Brace > Lulu Pearl Brace Hancock Baber > Bernard Hancock

52 Ancestors in 52 Weeks #11 – Large Family

My husband has defined my ancestors as ‘farm’ families and his ancestors as ‘city’ families. The difference being in the number of offspring. It was not unusual to have 7 to 15 children for my ancestors while his, being from the city numbered 2 to 4 except for a few generations of the Irish Catholic McMahon, McNamee and Godfrey’s of St. Louis.

William Totten and Lois Emerett Goodell my 3rd Great Grandparents had 11 children. Their eldest daughter was Mary Phoebe Totten who married John C . Brace (9 children), and pictured below is a family picnic on the Brace property just west of Elbert, Colorado around 1916/1917. Note Elwin Brace in his WWI uniform seated at the table 3rd from the right.

Brace Family picnic in Elbert, Colorado. The young boy standing at the end of the table on the right I believe is my grandfather Bernard Hancock

Mary Phoebe (Birdie) Brace’s eldest daughter was Lulu Pearl Brace who married Nathan Brink Hancock and they had one child, my grandfather Bernard Hancock. In 1909 she divorced Brink Hancock and married John Thomas Baber and had eight more children.

Lulu Hancock Baber with 8 of her 9 children. Lloyd Baber, who is missing from this photo, was in the Army and stationed abroad. Photo 1943.

In the Foreman family, Robert Sidney ‘Sid’ Foreman was one of 8 children. His father, Jacob Foreman was the 3rd of 11 children and his mother Sarah Watt was one of 9 children.

Jacob and Sarah Watt Foreman seated, missing from this photo is Sid Foreman and Martha Jane Foreman who died when she was 2 years old. Left to right – Arte Mesa Foreman Confer, William Foreman, Mary Belle Foreman Callaway, John Foreman, Nora Kate Foreman York and George Foreman. Photo about 1920.

Sid Foreman’s daughter Mary Francis Foreman married Bernard Hancock and they had 7 children, my mother being the oldest of their children.

Seated is Mary Francis Foreman Hancock. Left to right – Dorothy with husband Mel Perkins, Shirley, Robert Hancock with wife Josephine, Evelyn with husband Art Mann, Pearl with husband Gene Lomas and Charlotte with husband Bob Lucero. Missing from this photo is Charlotte’s twin sister Charlene. Photo was taken in 1991.

During my research I have found many families with upwards of 15 children. This usually involved more than one marriage. When a man became a widower he remarried, usually a younger woman and the cycle started all over again. My 3rd great grandfather Jacob Foreman, not to be confused with 2nd great grandfather Jacob Foreman had a brother who married 3 times and had 25 children.

At this time I am working on the Scofield ancestors only to find out that my 5th great grandparents are first cousins. That really screws up the family tree. The Scofield’s settled in Stamford, Connecticut in 1640 and all of the Scofield descendants had large families. Fortunately the family history is well documented and is fairly easy to track with unusual names like Neazer and Thankful who were the cousins mentioned above who married.

52 Ancestors in 52 Weeks #10 – Bachelor Uncle

Bachelor Uncle in my mother and grandmother’s family is Jessie Eugene Squires. Born in 1877 in Porter, Rock County, Wisconsin and died in Colorado Springs, Colorado 1960.

Jesse Eugene Squires 1877-1960

Jessie was the fifth of six children born to Edwin R. Squires and Mary Salina Kenyon. The family left Wisconsin and settled in Colorado Springs, Colorado in 1888. Jessie was about 11 years old.

The 1900 census shows Jessie, age 22, living at 529 E. Costilla in Colorado Springs and his occupation is a barber. By 1910 the census shows Jessie, age 32, as a farmer in Elbert, Colorado. In 1920 at age 41, he is an Engineer (steam engine) for the Colorado and Southern Railroad which in 1908 became the Chicago, Burlington and Quincy Railroad, later to become the Burlington Northern Railroad. Both of Jessie’s brothers, Harvey and Clarence also worked for the Colorado and Southern for a time, and they all lived in Cripple Creek for a while.

On the left is Harvey Squires brother of Jesse Squires.

The 1930 census shows Jesse as a watchman for the railroad and he is 52 years old. His address on this census is shown in the Falcon Precinct of El Paso County, Colorado. 1935 and 1940 census records place Harvey, age 69; Clarence age 65, both widowers, and Jessie age 62 living together in a house in Elbert, Colorado.

Harvey Squires, Clarence Squires and Jesse Squires

Jesse Eugene Squires

I remember Jesse visited our home many times and he was a close friend to my great grandfather and his brother-in-law Sid Foreman. Jesse and Sid always wore suites. And they were always good for a walk up to Brownie’s for penny candy.

Jesse Squires, Sid Foreman and baby Irene Foreman

1925 – Jesse with baby Grace Evelyn Hancock, my mother, in his 1925 Ford Model T.

Jesse Eugene Squires died in Colorado Springs in 1960 and is buried in the family plot at the Elbert Cemetery in Elbert, Elbert County, Colorado. Research at the Denver library indicates Jesse Squires purchased the family plot.